As we got off the highway we were stopped on the exit ramp behind a large semi at a red light. The road we were turning onto has a lot of traffic so I knew we would were going to have to wait until the light changed before we could turn right.

And, I'm sad to say, I just wasn't having any of that BS. I hit the horn loud and long. I tried to keep going but was rewarded with nearly getting hit and a very prominent display of her middle finger.
Later down the road, while in front of me, she slammed on her brakes and I drove off the side of the road to keep from hitting her. At that point, all I wanted to do is get out of the car and beat her senseless. Lucky for the both of us she floored it and took off.
I used a lot of really foul language that probably hurt the ears of my poor husband. I am ashamed that all I wanted to do is deck her.
I'm trying to figure out if there is a lesson in all of this.
And, my friends, the only thing I can think of is that we have reached critical mass. The self-centered, the dangerous, the stupid are growing in such numbers they are making day-to-day living trecherous for the rest of us.
I am not a violent person. My reaction scared me. Had she done this to someone else the outcome could have been much different.
I pray to God that there is still hope for us. And for me.
AMDG
My husband and I experienced that weekly during our tenure as truckers. I get upset when I retell stories, but the lesson learned from those experiences was that "it's never worth your life (or job, in our case)" to react to road rage. I brought those reactions with me to the confessional and the priest would often say, "Treat them as you would treat Christ" which is a good reminder as always, but I had to refrain from retorting, "Christ wouldn't drive that way!"
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So glad you are OK!
ReplyDeleteSince I'm in the car a lot, I see so much of this. I often think to myself, people's behavior in cars is such a perfect example of how self-centered, no-one-but-me-matters our society is.
I often joke "oh, I see you didn't pay the extra to have your turn signals turned on" because no one uses them anymore!